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This weblog is my online journal -- simply an expression of my views. Should you find anything here offensive, please accept my apologies in advance. I understand the sensitivity involved when discussing religion, politics, and different cultures. In our lives we experience many different things which mold us into the person we become -- I am thankful for everything I encounter.


Thursday, September 2, 2010

Hurricane Earl

One of my favorite things about this time of year in America is Hurricane Season. I love the rain, the storms, and most of all -- watching the storms roll in over the ocean as they approach the coastline. When they get too bad, the coast is always evacuated and we only get to watch as the skies get dark, the wind picks up, and the rain starts. Fortunately our home is located inland so we rarely get too much damage other than perhaps a few fallen branches and some brief power outages. Every year I try to plan one of my trips back to the states during late Hurricane Season/early Fall. My favorite time of year.

Right now Hurricane Earl is the immediate threat to North Carolina. It's quite a large storm registering a Category 4. Thanks to Orbit News 1 and 2 I get to watch the American news programs 24 hours a day and am currently glued to the television. I admit, if I were in the states I would be one of the many people rushing off to the local Home Depot and supermarket stocking up on supplies -- though again, my home isn't facing a real threat. I suppose I get wrapped up in the moment.

Below are some photos of the storm as it approaches land, as well as a few other hurricane related images.

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So it seems Earl has been downgraded and even changed paths to start moving slightly Westward. I called my family yesterday to see if they were preparing and by 4pm it was still sunny and not a raindrop in sight. I called them again this morning (11pm their time) only to find out they got a little drizzle and that was it. Being inland, like I mentioned before, we never get the real affects of hurricanes. And though I wasn't going to be there to experience it personally, the thought of wind and rain makes me feel all 'American' and whatnot for a moment.

Update below:

By 4 PM Pacific Time, Earl was downgraded to a Cat 2 hurricane. By 8 PM Thursday Pacific Time, Earl is slightly expected to diminish in strength to 115 mph but is still too close for comfort to Cape Hatteras. Looking at the projections for tonight, one can safely say that the damage to Cape Hatteras will be substantial even if the hurricane does not directly hit land.

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2 sep 10 @ 9:29 pm amst          Comments

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Children Learn What They Live

After the recent articles I've posted about some of the malicious behavior taking place in the world, I find myself often remembering the following (pasted below). When I was pregnant with my first son a very talented person hand-painted this quote onto a canvas and framed it for me as a gift. It hung it my son's bedroom for as long as I was still 'allowed' to decorate -- before he had an opinion. However, I still own it, though now stored away in a box with baby books and photo albums. If only everyone could be given a gift with such a powerful meaning.

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Children Learn What They Live
By Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph.D.
 

If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.

29 aug 10 @ 10:37 am amst          Comments

Follow-Up: Nails removed from maid's body

I was glad to see a follow-up on this story, as it's quite rare over here. However, I can't help but to wonder what action (if any) will be taken against the sponsors who did this to this woman? These people should not be above the law, and should receive the same punishment which would be given had it been the Sri Lankan hammering nails into a Saudi national. People are people, right is right, wrong is wrong. It's just not that difficult.

Furthermore, I certainly hope this Saudi couple doesn't have children -- or at least not children who are old enough to witness this horrific behavior and even remotely comprehend what was taking place. Otherwise, they've sent the message to their children this behavior is acceptable. So acceptable mommy and daddy do it. People, children look to their parents to learn right from wrong, good from bad, and to hopefully have a geniune moral compass instilled!! It's our parents who we depend on, believe in, and follow in their footsteps. Such a shame there are people like this who will partake in contributing to the future should they ever procreate.

Nails, needles removed from abused Lankan maid
Surgery successful, says doctor after 3-hour procedure

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COLOMBO, Sri Lanka, Aug 27, (AP): Doctors removed 13 nails and five needles from a Sri Lankan maid who says the couple she worked for in Saudi Arabia hammered them into her body.

L.G. Ariyawathi, who was hospitalized with severe pain after returning Saturday from Saudi Arabia, has said the family she worked for punished her by heating the nails and needles before sticking them into her. X-rays showed that she had 24 nails and needles in her body, said Dr. Keerthi Satharasinghe of Kamburupitiya hospital, about 100 miles (160 kilometers) from the capital, Colombo.

The nails ranged in length from one to two inches (2.5 to 5-cm) while the needles were about one inch (2.5-cm) long. They were removed from her legs and forehead.

“The surgery is successful and she is recovering now,” Satharasinghe said after the three-hour procedure. He said six more needles in her hands could not be removed because the operation might damage her nerves and arteries, but that they would not be harmful to her.

Since being hospitalized, Ariyawathi, 49, has described the abuse meted out by her employers.
“They did not allow me even to rest. The woman at the house had heated the nails and then the man inserted them into my body,” Ariyawathi was quoted as saying by the Lakbima newspaper.
She told the newspaper that she went to Saudi Arabia in March but was paid only two months’ salary, with her employer withholding the rest to buy an air ticket to send her home.

About 1.5 million Sri Lankans work abroad, many as maids or drivers, to earn more than they can in their own impoverished country. Nearly 400,000 work in Saudi Arabia alone.

Sri Lanka’s Foreign Employment Bureau said Ariyawathi had been too afraid to complain about the abuse to Saudi authorities, fearing that her employers might not let her return home.

Deputy Minister of Economic Development Lakshman Yapa Abeywardena said the government would report the matter to the Saudi government and provide her compensation.


29 aug 10 @ 10:10 am amst          Comments

Thursday, August 26, 2010

Such a horrible shame...

Unfortunately this isn't the first time abuse of a domestic employee has been made public in local newspapers, and surely won't be the last. I will never believe this is 'common' practice, though many will argue. However, I like to believe in the good of people. Am I truly blind?

During the years I've had domestic help I could never for a moment imagine being cruel or outright malicious. I don't care what part of the world a person comes from, or what their job or education level is... we're all human. Yes, I have been taken advantage of, stolen from, and perhaps seen as 'stupid' by domestic employees. In the end I remind myself if they need to steal or be dishonest in an attempt to get money, etc. then perhaps they really need it. And if I have it, what's the problem? Well, I suppose the only real problem here is the means they use to obtain what they want. By being sneaky -- and I hate sneaky. Surely they could just ask me and I would willingly give. Unfortunately, this isn't the culture for many. Survival skills for them means crime. Thank God I don't come from that world. But I am even more thankful it's me who has been taken advantage of and stolen from and not someone else. Perhaps someone who would 'punish' the person doing the stealing. Why bother myself? They know they've done wrong, and when I find out they no longer have a job... that's punishment enough.

We're all someone's child. When I read things like this I immediately think of my own children, the undefinable love I feel for them, and then question how I would feel inside knowing someone had done this to them. There are no words. However, I also question what kind of people would do something like this to another human? How were they raised? And who instilled in them this behavior was acceptable? Who was so horrible to them as a child that they no longer feel?

Article from Arab Times below:

Saudi boss stuck nails in Sri Lankan maid


A Sri Lankan maid returned from her job in Saudi Arabia with 24 nails inside her body — the result of torture by the family who employed her, a doctor and government official said Wednesday.

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The detail of an X-ray film held up by a doctor shows nails driven into the hand and nails embedded into the body section a Sri Lankan housemaid. (AFP)
 

Ariyawathi, 49, returned to Sri Lanka on Saturday from Saudi Arabia and was hospitalized the next day with severe pain at a facility about 100 miles (160 kms) away from capital, Colombo, according to media reports.

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L.G. Ariyawathi’s body is riddled with needles and nails, which are scheduled to be removed Friday, a doctor confirmed Wednesday.

She told a local newspaper that her employers tortured her with the nails as punishment.
“They (employer and his family) did not allow me even to rest. The woman at the house had heated the nails and then the man inserted them into my body,” Ariyawathi was quoted as saying in the Lakbima, a newspaper published in local Sinhalese language.

She told the paper that she went to Saudi Arabia in March and was paid only two months’ salary, with her employer withholding three months’ salary to buy an air ticket to send her home. (AP)
Dr H.K.K. Satharasinghe of Kamburupitiya hospital said X-rays show Ariyawathi has 24 nails and needles in her body. The nails range from 1-2 inches.

Her initial puncture wounds have healed over, the doctor told The Associated Press by telephone. However, she finds difficult to walk because she has two nails in her knee and two in her ankles.
Another needle is in her forehead, and the rest are in hands, he said.

“Her condition is stable, but we are giving antibiotics and painkillers,” Satharasinghe said, adding that doctors will begin removing the nails on Friday. (AP)


26 aug 10 @ 12:45 pm amst          Comments

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Raw nuts, whole grains, and green tea...
This is what my life has turned into!

As I'm sure I've mentioned (complained about) before, I'm not quite as young as I was yesterday. Hmmm. Though I have to say, I am doing rather well at accepting my age with assistance from Botox and any other 'anti-aging' service I can have performed at the salon. I can easily leave the 3564543788_561387200d.jpghouse without a drop of makeup on my face and feel perfectly comfortable. This is an indication 1) I have great skin and have maintained it well, 2) I've had so much skin lasered off and renewed through medi-spa processes I really do look 21, or 3) I'm so old I couldn't care less what I look like or if I scare small 106232_f520.jpgchildren with my non-makeup clad face. I would venture to say it's a combination of all of the above. (I'm really not ancient, I just sound that way when complaining about getting older. However, unlike some, I outright refuse to lie about my age, but rather take pride in how well I've maintained)

That being said, I've also come to accept we really are what we eat. I eat McDonald's fries today (my favorite) and tomorrow I am stuffing them into my pants -- extra weight... not literally, ew. As much as I love fat soaked deep fried junk, I realize the horrible effects it has on one's body. Though, well, I still indulge every now and then -- I am human! However, the vast majority of my diet consists of raw nuts (almonds preferably), whole grains (rice, breads, pastas, oats -- the all natural stuff), and iced green tea with lemon and mint... yum yum yum! And honestly, if I last an entire week without straying or indulging even once (this means trading in the Iced Mocha for Iced Zen tea at Starbucks as well), I feel like a new person loaded with energy and endurance. I go from needing 6-7 hours of sleep to function down to 5 and still feel fantastic. I start to crave whole grain bread and 1 slice feels like a meal. My muscle tone feels better, my skin glows, and my hair and nails grow and take on a new level of 'healthy'. I've never been one to do the hair extensions and fake nails as I feel 'natural' is beautiful. This isn't to say these things are bad... some women really do need them. Perhaps they are unable to grow long healthy hair, or strong nails. But for me, I find my true beauty is more evident when I'm more healthy and not indulging in junk and fake. By the way... water is our friend! And NOT the sodium free icky stuff marketed as 'sodium free' hoping to entice people! Umm, hello? We need electrolytes! Want dry skin, weak nails, and brittle hair? Keep drinking sodium free water and depriving your body of natural moisture.

Finally, and most importantly -- true beauty really does come from within. If we feel great on the inside this is quite obvious on the outside. We really do 'shine' and others see it. Being healthy and feeling good about ourselves have nothing to do with physical appearance, or fitting into a 'social standard', but definitely about being the best you that you can be. We should always embrace our individuality, and love exactly who we are. We're all different, and this is our most amazing quality. If we take care of ourselves to the best of our ability, then we're going to feel great -- regardless of whether or not we belong on the cover of Vogue. Let's celebrate that!

By the way... thank you all so much for the sweet emails regarding glasses. Especially to those of you who know me and have seen me in glasses. So sweet! You have all definitely made this decision much easier -- and even exciting. I expect to have them in a week or so.
25 aug 10 @ 11:12 am amst          Comments

Monday, August 23, 2010

Pakistan Donations

Unfortunately Pakistan has only received a small portion of donations they had initially hoped for after suffering tragic floods, loss of life, and a number of families being displaced. Far less than the amount donated immediately to Haiti. I was in the states during the Haiti earthquakes, so I know how much publicity it got, and the lengths people went to in an attempt to assist. George Clooney even purchased airtime on several cable television stations to do fundraising for hours one night -- it was virutally the only thing on television (to include HBO and other paid movie stations). Because I'm not in the states now I'm not sure what's being done to bring attention and awareness to the needs of the people of Pakistan. Though America is often condemned for rushing off to other countries to 'invade', we should also be recognized for acting equally as fast when it comes to coming to the aid of those in need. American people are also known for going to great lengths to personally invest their time into helping those in need... even those from far away lands. Surely my country must be doing something for Pakistan, but what? I was curious enough to find out.

Below is a piece of an article showing the assistance the USA and Canada have already and/or plan to provide, as well as some ways we can donate.

Secretary of State Hillary Rodham Clinton pledged an additional $60 million in U.S. funding to help Pakistan battle record floods in an address carried live on the Paltalk News Network.

"With a new pledge that I am making today of $60 million, the United States will be contributing more than $150 million toward emergency flood relief" efforts in Pakistan, Clinton told the UN General Assembly in New York City.

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On Sunday, August 22, 2010, the Canadian federal government announced it will match dollar for dollar donations made to registered charities destined to aid the relief efforts in Pakistan. House leader John Baird told reporters that the government will match donations made between August 2 and September 12 and this will be in addition to the $33 million it has already committed to Pakistan.

Online Donations:

Disasters Emergency Committee

UN Refugee Agency

US State Department

American Red Cross

Islamic Relief USA

Doctors Without Borders

UNICEF

Text Donations:

USA

• Text the word “GIVE” in English or “DON” in French to 45678 to donate $5 to UNICEF.
• Text the word “WORLD” to 45678 to donate $5 to World Vision Canada.

No text messaging fees will apply.

Canada

• Text the word “REDCROSS” to 30333 to donate $10 to the Canadian Red Cross.

UK

• Text ‘GIVE’ to 70707 to donate £5.



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23 aug 10 @ 12:29 pm amst          Comments

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Productive!

The past several days I've made a conscious effort to be more productive than I normally am. Not that I'm some lazy slob who does nothing, but there are things I take for granted and have decided I need to not only appreciate things more, but to find the positive in the menial things I sometimes dread so much.

First and foremost on the list is exercise. I don't hate it, but let me assure you, it's something I view more as a chore than a pleasure. I believe if I change my routine and my mind, I'll feel better about this exciting adventure (see how that works?) Not to mention, my body just doesn't feel 21 anymore. I crave my old level of energy and endurance and I plan to get it back.

Next would be outright laziness. Though I'm not often too guilty of this since life just rarely stops moving around me and there are always deadlines to meet... I do sometimes find myself taking the easy way out when it's not necessary. Like having maids do all the work. I spent this past weekend throwing a 'cleaning party for 1' and enjoying it. I actually don't mind cleaning, I kinda like doing laundry, and I really love cooking. So why, for so long have I had other people do most of these things for me? I think I'm really going to make an effort to put a little more of 'me' into my living environment and take more pride in the work I do... and not that of someone else.

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Now, well, this one is tough... glasses. I've worn contacts for many years and even glasses every now and then. The last pair were these hot little deep red Fendi frames I bought while in Italy. They were perfect for my face and I actually liked them. This was several years ago and I've since gone to contacts full time. Well, now, after a little coercing from the eye Doctor and someone quite dear to me (not the eye Dr. by the way), I've decided to venture back into the world of glasses... part time. Yesterday I went to update my contact prescription and try on frames. I admit, I was skeeeered! Was I going to look like some old woman with glasses hanging from the tip of her nose while she read the newspaper every morning?! Well, no, I didn't. I admit, me in glasses... not bad at all. I found a pair quite similar to my former Fendi frames but slightly updated to appear very 2010'ish, and they're a nice accessory. Not sure I'm quite ready to become a full time glasses wearer, but they'll definitely be a nice break from 24/7 contacts.

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Finally, being more organized in the office. With the half days during Ramadan I find myself losing sight and interest. I feel like nothing much can be accomplished in just a few short hours so why bother myself at all? Well, this morning was totally different. I decided to set priorities, and work from there. This is yet another task I generally delegate to my assistant and fail to do myself. I've also determined my assistant and I aren't quite clicking as of yet and it's easier for me to do the tasks I want done, then show her so she'll have an idea of what I'm looking for. It's working out well so far. But again, I am trying to avoid dumping off on others what I am perfectly capable of doing, and spent the morning rearranging and organizing my office. In the process, I realized how badly I want it painted and new decor. These are things I can't do on my own and have started (see? I didn't procrastinate) seeking out a painter. Of course this leads me to check the office budget which should have been done first... I'll get to that part later. Choosing the proper color is far more important than determining if it's affordable.
22 aug 10 @ 12:07 pm amst          Comments

Friday, August 20, 2010

Sunset in Abu Dhabi

These were taken from my phone in Raha Beach area, Abu Dhabi. Quality is poor, but you get the idea.

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20 aug 10 @ 10:34 am amst          Comments

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Belonging

It's human nature to want to belong. This is evident from the time we're very small children and having our first social interactions. At a very early age you can watch a group of toddlers interact and even observe the behavior of one another, mimicking it, attempting to 'fit in'. Is this because we long to be liked? Fear being different? Naturally pack animals? Or just have an innate desire to belong to a group?

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In America we do have 'groups' of specific types of people, but we generally outgrow this behavior by High School/early University years. These are normally people who fit into a stereotype and gravitate towards one another finding a comfort zone in their common interests. As we get older we start to see people for more than the music they listen to, the courses they're taking, or the clubs they hang out at on a Friday night. We begin to see them from within and appreciate the differences we once shied away from. We become equals without the boundaries of race, religion, ethnicity, etc. In most cases anyway. America still has a few small minded people who judge others based on inanity.

In the GCC it's quite different. There are dreadfully clear lines drawn which separate individuals. People spend time with one another based on the country they're from and rarely stray outside of this little group. Quite natural really. We all need to feel comfortable. But what about the people who were born and raised in a country in which they're not a 'citizen'? The bidoon? Those whose parent(s) migrated years before their birth? What if the country in which they don't have any legal rights as a citizen is all they know as their home? Are these people still treated as different? Well, unfortunately, yes. In many ways. First and foremost they're not given the same monetary benefits as a citizen, and in the GCC that can mean the difference between a HS Diploma and a PhD. But what about amongst friends? Is there always that underlying feeling of not being 'one of them'? And if so... how sad.

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I'm very priviledged to have the opportunity to meet people from all walks of life, backgrounds, educational levels, etc. I'm even more fortunate to see them through eyes which don't judge anchored on anything other than character. I often ask these people why they don't come to America and live the life of sovereignty and acceptance by all. Of course being an American I've never had to apply to a visa to my country and therefore am not really familiar with the process for others. But when I do ask and I see their faces light up and their smile as they say, "Oh that's my dream" it makes me happy. It makes me realize my country (and most of us citizens) really do encourage others to come to America, to visit, to live, and to have a better life in a country in which they really do belong -- regardless of where they were born or their citizenship. It makes me proud to be American and thankful to have the rights I have... even when living so far away.

I long for the day when the only thing dividing the human race is character, morals, and values. Of course I won't be around to see it, but I trust it's possible. Maybe this is one area of my life where I'm just subscribing to pragmatism and maybe it's never going to happen... but for now, I'll waft away into my diminutive vision of unity and smile.
17 aug 10 @ 11:39 am amst          Comments

Monday, August 16, 2010

Delicate Prurience

Many who know me know I am quite the sensitive woman. This isn't always a good thing, as unfortunately, sensitivity and kindness are often mistaken for weakness. This leaves me vulnerable and fragile -- living my life as though I'm encased in a Faberge' Egg being carried around in the hands of a 2 year old child. On the other hand, this allows me to see the world through the eyes of others... and to sometimes feel what they're feeling. Or to at least somewhat sympathize if I can't empathize. I see this as a gift... rarely making a decision without putting myself in the other person's shoes before acting. Turning around every situation to see how I would feel if the same were being done to me.

When raising children I always used this same theory. I recall when my sons were younger (though obviously I was never a boy), before disciplining them or correcting their behavior, I would always ask myself how I felt at that age. To what level had my mom_and_baby_hands.JPGemotions matured, and how vulnerable was I to the words of my parents? I feel this allowed me to raise very kind young men who have the ability to consider other's feelings. Surely I'm biased -- I'm their mom.

A couple of weeks ago my oldest son gave me the most amazing gift a mother could ever hope to receive. It wasn't tangible, and I won't go into details to protect his privacy. But once he gave me this gift I cried like a baby for hours... literally. In some ways I wanted to remove any evidence of pain he might be feeling, though in other ways was so proud that he was so in touch with his own emotions and that of others. I wondered how I raised such an amazing man and wanted to tell him a million times how grateful I am to have him as a son.  

When it comes to friends and people closest to me, I attempt to do the same thing. I always try to put myself in their position before acting. Of course this isn't always the case, and I make tremendous mistakes when it comes to others. I am selfish, self centered, and not the easiest person to get along with at times. I can be difficult and demanding. But inside, I am always filled with love for those around me. I think I just struggle a bit when it comes to showing it. I'm better with words than actions -- very unfortunate.

But, there's not a day that goes by which I'm not grateful for my level of sensitivity which I strongly believe brings me closer to my family and friends. And of course I'm grateful for the wonderful people in my life who accept me for the whimpering, delicate, silly, selfish woman I am. They are my support system, my happiness, and my reason for wanting to be a better woman every step of the way.
16 aug 10 @ 12:02 pm amst          Comments

Saturday, August 14, 2010

President Obama Supports 'Ground Zero Mosque'

I wonder if the terrorist attacks had been carried out by Christians if people would oppose erecting a church at the Ground Zero site? I highly doubt it... and even suspect they would encourage it. Though the tragedies of 9/11 were the act of men who called themselves 'Muslim', in no way did their behavior represent the beliefs of Islam.

The article below makes me proud to be American. Proud to be from a country where our beliefs are not only allowed, but respected. And proud to have a President who is willing to stand up for everyone.

 President Barack Obama gave a thumbs up today to a proposed Islamic community center and mosque that is slated to be built two blocks from the site of the 9/11 attacks in lower Manhattan.

"Let me be clear," Obama said at a White House dinner celebrating the Islamic holy month of Ramadan, "as a citizen, and as president, I believe that Muslims have the same right to practice their religion as anyone else in this country.

"That includes the right to build a place of worship and a community center on private property in lower Manhattan, in accordance with local laws and ordinances," Obama said, according to CNN.

Obama's remarks drew a prompt response from Rep. Peter King, R-N.Y. "President Obama is wrong," said King, The Associated Press reported. "It is insensitive and uncaring for the Muslim community to build a mosque in the shadow of ground zero. While the Muslim community has the right to build the mosque, they are abusing that right by needlessly offending so many people who have suffered so much."

The proposed construction of the Cordoba House Islamic Center has divided U.S. politicians and the public. Obama's remarks follow a line of argument put forth by New York Mayor Michael Bloomberg, who made an impassioned defense of the construction of the Islamic center in a speech delivered on Governor's Island.
Politicians such as Sarah Palin and Newt Gingrich have opposed the mosque, citing their view that the former site of the World Trade center is "hallowed ground" and that building Cordoba House in such close proximity is an affront to the memory of those who died in the terrorist attacks of Sept. 11, 2001.

"This is America," Obama declared today, "and our commitment to religious freedom must be unshakable. The principle that people of all faiths are welcome in this country, and will not be treated differently by their government, is essential to who we are. The writ of our founders must endure."

New York's Landmarks Preservation Commission has cleared the way for construction of the Islamic center, which will occupy the site that once housed a Burlington Coat Factory outlet store, but the state's governor, David Paterson, has suggested that other land might be made available to the developers of the project.
14 aug 10 @ 9:40 am amst          Comments

Friday, August 13, 2010

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Thursday, August 12, 2010

Saudi’s giant clock to establish ‘Makkah Time’

Muslims around the world could be setting their watches to a new time soon when the world’s largest clock begins ticking atop a soaring skyscraper in Islam’s holiest city of Makkah.

Saudi Arabia hopes the four faces of the new clock, which will loom over Makkah’s Grand Mosque from what is expected to be the world’s second tallest building, will establish Mekkah as an alternate time standard to the Greenwich median.

The clock is targeted to enter service with a three-month trial period in the first week of the holy month of Ramadan on or about August 12, according to the Saudi state news agency SPA.

It boasts four glimmering 46 metre-across (151 feet) faces of high-tech composite tiles, some laced with gold, sitting more than 400 metres (1,320 feet) over the Holy Haram compound.

The tower’s height will reach 601 metres (1,983 feet), SPA said. On its website, Premiere Composite, which is responsible for cladding the top section, including a shimmering spire topped by a golden crescent moon, puts the planned height at 590 metres (1,947 feet).

That would make it the world’s second tallest building — ahead of Taiwan’s 509 metre (1,670 feet) Taipei 101, but well behind the Burj Khalifa, the 828 metre (2,717 feet) skyscraper inaugurated in Dubai in January.

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Some 250 “highly qualified Muslim workers” were completing welding work on the clock’s frame, SPA said.

More than six times larger in diameter than London’s famed Big Ben, the clock faces, with the Arabic words “In the Name of Allah” in huge lettering underneath and will be lit with two million LED lights.

Some 21,000 white and green coloured lights, fitted at the top of the clock, will flash to as far as 30 kilometres (18.7 miles) to signal Islam’s mandatory five-times daily prayers.

On special Muslim occasions, 16 bands of vertical lights will shoot some 10 kilometres (6.2 miles) up into the sky.

“Everyone is interested to see the clock, despite the lack of sufficient information about it, and its mechanism,” said Mekkah resident Hani al-Wajeeh.

“We in Makkah hope to be the world’s central time zone, and not just have a clock to look at, to show off,” he said.

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The developer of the massive seven-tower Abraj al-Bait complex had kept the details of the clock a secret, but it is visibly in place now, adorned with the green crossed sword and palm symbol of the Saudi state.

Mohammed al-Arkubi, the manager of the Royal Makkah Clock Tower Hotel in the building below, said the installation of the clock, its faces made by the German-owned Dubai company, Premiere Composite Technologies, has been “a huge operation.”

The clock reflects a goal by some Muslims to replace the 126-year-old Universal Time standard — originally called Greenwich Mean Time (GMT) — with Makkah mean time.

At a conference in Doha in 2008, Muslim clerics and scholars presented “scientific” arguments that Makkah time is the true global meridian. They said that Makkah is the centre of the world and that the Greenwich standard was imposed by the west in 1884.

Big does not begin to describe the Abraj al-Bait complex just across the street from the south gate of the Grand Mosque, the Muslim world’s most sacred site.

Built by a government-controlled fund, the complex sits seven huge towers atop a massive podium. Six are between 42 and 48 stories, and in the middle is the clock tower, appearing nearly twice as tall as the others.

Moreover, the entire complex, with 3,000 hotel rooms and apartments, a five-story shopping centre and gigantic prayer and conference halls, will give it 1.5 million square metres (16.1 million square feet) of floor space, according to architects and construction industry reports.

At that it will tie Dubai International Airport’s newest terminal three for the world’s largest building by floor space.

The complex will sport three top-class hotels, the Fairmont, Raffles and Swiss Hotel. It will also have hundreds of luxury apartments, most of them designed to have a direct view of the Grand Mosque.

The project is part of the Saudi government’s plan to develop Mekkah to be able to receive as many as 10 million hajj Pilgrims every year, up from the current three million capacity.

That is necessary to accommodate a rapidly growing global population of Muslims, who have a duty to make a pilgrimage to Makkah at least once in their lifetimes, if possible.

At the peak of the hajj, according to architect Dar al-Handasah, the complex should accommodate 65,000 people.

The clock will be the focus. Elevators will take visitors up to a huge viewing balcony just underneath the faces, and also a four-story astronomical observatory and Islamic museum.

“The construction of the biggest clock in the world in the purest spot on the earth is a dream-come-true for Muslims,” said Atif Felmban, who lives in the city.

“Before, we heard and saw famous clocks in the West. But today we can as Muslims be proud of this giant project,” said Ahmed Haleem, an Egyptian living in the Muslim holy city.

“I might leave Mekkah before the opening ceremony for the clock. But I will be keen to follow it and set my watch to it as soon as it is working,” Haleem said.

“It means an honour for a place, and time for me,” he said.

12 aug 10 @ 9:20 am amst          Comments

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Ramadan Mubarak


                         Online Qur'an

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11 aug 10 @ 9:19 am amst          Comments

Monday, August 9, 2010

Fresh...

Something about today feels 'fresh', like new and clean. Perhaps it's because the weather is absolutely incredible and reminds me of early mornings in Italy having a great cup of espresso? Or because I just woke up feeling really good -- tired, but good. I never sleep enough. Though I will start.

Either way, I love days like this.

I've decided it's time I start to focus more on my research and writing, and today is the perfect day to get back to it. During Ramadan interviews will be non-existent, but I can certainly focus on writing. It's my passion and my therapeutic outlet -- I need it right now.

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I've also concluded it's time to invest more time in a social life. In Kuwait life seemed non-stop... even when I wished it would have at least slowed down. Since being in Abu Dhabi I've taken great pleasure in the peace and quiet. It's also not as easy to meet women since they're not outside of the home as often as men, and the majority of my friends here are local males. Until they have a full understanding of, "I'm not that kind of girl" I don't hang out with them. I think my distance has sent the message loud and clear -- now perhaps it's safe to give them a chance to prove themselves well behaved men.

Additionally, I feel every positive step I take in my life assists me in becoming a better woman. Everything is a learning experience. Sometimes we see things we feel we must have, and then later discover it wasn't as appealing as we once thought. But we learned. I also firmly believe we're incapable of making proper decisions regarding our wants, needs, and desires until we're 100% invested in our own happiness. Oh I am so very selfish... blah.

Salon appointments have been scheduled (starting this evening), and the conscious decision has been made to invest even more time into me. Writing, social life, salon, relaxation, etc. I deserve it. And if I'm not going to go above and beyond to spoil myself, who's going to do it for me?

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9 aug 10 @ 11:41 am amst          Comments

If we only knew when Ramadan was to start...

So far Lebanon has determined Ramadan starts on Wednesday, however, they use scientific measures to determine this. It's still quite controversial and not accepted by much of the Muslim community.

Kuwait and Oman, on the other hand, have determined Ramadan will start Thursday based on the expectations of the moon.

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Here in the UAE we're still waiting... wondering. Though the UAE may appear progressive and forward thinking (perhaps even inappropriate at times?) it's quite a conservative country. Things such as the first day of Ramadan are not to be taken lightly. Tonight the scholars here in the UAE are supposed to attempt to get us an accurate date. I'm guessing that because Kuwait and Oman are both starting Thursday, chances are we will too. For now it's just wait and see.

Fortunately I did manage to make it to the store for some required items and feel much more prepared.
9 aug 10 @ 9:04 am amst          Comments

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Ramadan is coming!

I haven't been this excited about Ramadan since 2008, but for some reason, this year, I am really looking forward to it. I've done absolutely nothing to prepare, which is somewhat odd for me. I'm generally totally ready at this point, and spend the next few days just relaxing. Fortunately the majority of businesses have extended working hours at night during Ramadan, so it won't be difficult to grab the things I need at wee hours of the morning. I, on the other hand, have incredibly limited office hours during this month -- which is also quite nice. I'll be spending the entire month in Abu Dhabi, but have contemplated a trip to Kuwait for Eid. Not sure yet, no plans are definitive.

Yesterday, while at my salon appointment, I was reminded of their new hours for Ramadan -- open till midnight! Oh how awesome is that? And, great discounts on all of their services. I normally do salon appointments on the weekends in the daytime -- preferably morning even. Other than the medical services which I do Thursday evening so I can heal over the weekend. But all pampering is done weekend mornings. Now I get the option of being pampered until midnight? I really like the idea.

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During Ramadan my schedule changes somewhat. However, I'm not one to sleep through the day and be awake all night. I feel like that's cheating. Although, I do have a tendency to be awake much later, nap for a couple of hours, come to the office for a few hours, go home late morning/early afternoon, nap again, then be awake till 2am. This breaks up my day, allows me to be productive without being exhausted, and gives me the evening to spend time with those closest to me, or alone.

This year is going to be a bit more difficult considering Ramadan is in the summer. Longer days, hotter, etc. I love when Ramadan falls in mid to late September because I know by Eid the weather will be perfection, the rain will slowly creep in, and winter will begin. Which mean tents will be erected and camping starts! Unfortunately, that's not the case this year -- or for many more to come. Eid will not mark the beginning of winter, there will be no tents or camping, and weeks will have to pass before a raindrop falls. Oh well, I'll surely find something I love about summer Ramadan which will leave me with fond memories for years to come.

Finally, though many Westerners come to this side of the world for work, and think it's cute or funny to force their culture down the throats of the locals -- please at least try to have some respect. If you're not Muslim chances are you don't grasp the meaning of Ramadan and you think it's perfectly acceptable to act certain ways, discuss certain things, or display certain behaviors in an attempt to get attention. When in reality it's just rude and highly disrespectful. I'm not going to bang out a list of do's and don'ts since all of my friends are either Muslim or have lived in the Middle East long enough to know better -- however, many questions can be answered here.
8 aug 10 @ 10:19 am amst          Comments

Saturday, August 7, 2010

7 aug 10 @ 11:17 pm amst          Comments

Intentions...

Last night a friend of mine and I were discussing Islam, and the different sects. He's Shia. Most of the GCC is comprised of approximately 50% Shia, 50% Sunni on average. There are some variances, but there's a fair representation of both. Some countries struggle with these differences, others accept them, intertwine, and mingle rather well. Some remain in wars, killing one another over these differences. At the end of the day... Sunni and Shia are both Muslims.

Unfortunately, regardless of sect, Muslims are not always the best representation of Islam. This is perhaps the most sad thing I've ever come to accept.

I've been followed down the road by a man with a beard asking for my number, asked to partake in temporary marriage for sexual purposes, and witnessed a married niqabi sneaking out of her home to meet her 'boyfriend'. Last Ramadan I read of a man who beat his non-Muslim employee because the employee chose to try fasting and was working too slow. And a woman who was caught in bed with her lover who came in when her husband left the home to walk to the Mosque to pray.

I'm not judging the behavior of any of these people, as it's not my place, nor am I the best representation of anything. What I do question are their intentions. Because isn't that what it's really all about? No one is perfect and we're never going to be as long as we live on this earth. However, if our intentions are good and our heart is pure, are we really so bad?

Some will argue that we're here solely to serve and please Allah. Does this mean we disregard mankind and treat others any way we see fit? Since when does praying give someone a pass to purposely cause harm to others?
7 aug 10 @ 11:22 am amst          Comments

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Good morning, Abu Dhabi.

Unlike Kuwait this time of year, we actually get weather consisting of more than 'hot and sunny' here in Abu Dhabi. Every now and then we'll even get the elusive raindrop. We'll only know they've fallen because of the evidence left behind on the windshield. Anyone who knows me knows how much I love the rain. So I definitely welcome the Abu Dhabi weather as compared to that of Kuwait. This place is kinda growing on me.

This photo was taken from my phone the other morning on my way to the office. Clouds in August in the desert? How nice.

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5 aug 10 @ 4:33 pm amst          Comments

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